Virgin Getting By

In this increasingly modern day society. sex becomes one of those things were you're in and you're out before u even know the other person's name, let alone their astrological sign. As Freud says humans have a natural desire for satification just like animals. We have a libido. Which is very true..for guys all it takes is a little push and their off the cliff and around the corner before u can even say start your engines. with girls it takes a little long, but even today the female sex is displaying a policy of do it and run. this is particualrly true of the college scene where freedom from parents allows students to experiment with much more than hetrosexual realtionships but all bisexual pleasuring. 

Going into college i can say that I actually aprove of the sexualy exporation, even if it may seem like explotation. For in college we discover who we are without someone there telling us who we are. Sexual openess is a great way to open your doors to new people and new experiences (although i don't advicate sleeping around to the point you become the campus hore)
I particularly think I'm going to have a problem with the how sexuality issue in college however. I have had one boyfriend and am curantly working on my second. My sexual experience is non-existant. Sticking my tongue down a guys mouth is personally thrilling for me, but i'm having trouble with the currant boyfriend that wants to take it slow.
I love slow, but how slow can u actually be. I'm not saying i'm reading to jump in bed with anyone right now. I want to experience sex, but when i'm ready. I'll jump later. right now i just want my first time to be perfect.
But how does one define slow. I have been talking to him for three months. We dated about five times. On the last date it was his prom...so I kinda saved the kiss till then, but even then he was hesitant. So what is slow to him, because i know slow to me. I'm not saying that we full on make out cause i know he isn't ready, but really u got to give the girl something. anything!!! especially when u rub a girl like that on the dance floor...there is defaniatly going to be reprecussions. and i know the reprecussions...i started to feel some of them. : D